Dear Roman Martinez de Aragon, Madrid Spain,
A simple response to your concerns regarding the rude, loutish, immature manners of many ICC blitz players is DON'T WORRY BE HAPPY. It is a relatively small percentage of an otherwise very civilized group of Cassia devotees.
I know Marty Grund and he has done everything possible to deescalate the level of extreme incivility that exists at the internet chess club. A benefactor of the game we love is Joseph Ocol who advocates ignoring the malcontents who are in many cases 50 year old men who were picked on in high school or never really made their mark in life with multiple failed marriages. USCF can deal with these pricks in face to fact tournaments, but online chess much more difficult to manage the startling abruptness of bitter old men who never matured passed adolescence. Patent lawyer Charles Slade has written incisively about the the rising prevalence of obnoxious and offensive acts concluding that ignoring them HURTS THEM THE MOST. The baby boys want attention. Just do not give it to them!!
I do hope my abogado amigo does not choose to terminate his ICC membership. Report the jerks and they will lose their chatting privileges with possible suspension of their accounts. I don't think Grund wants to do that since he would probably have to refund the ill-mannered punk's membership cost pro-rated. I generally wish my opponents a good game to try to induce a friendly atmosphere in long games, but blitz and bullet bring out the worst behavior.
Much love to you Karlo Mi compadre!!!
1958, lawyer